Anonymous asked: my friend with benifts usually rubs my clit over my leggings when we hook up do you think id be a turn on for him if this time i grab his hand and make him like go over my underwear or my actually like vagina instead of doing it over my leggings? like i always get extremely wet so even over leggings he feels and always gets his fingers all wet but do you think hed be like DAM this is hotter if i do that?
I’m sorry, I’m not trying to make fun of your question, but I’ve gotta say that My Actually Like Vagina would be a great name for an all-girl rock band. Anyway, yes, he would most likely find that very hot.
You may have heard of the baseball system for describing hooking up. There’s some debate over what each base means, but my favorite interpretation is first base=light petting (touching boobs or pussy over clothing), second base=heavy petting (touching under clothes or naked), third base=(oral and anything else besides fucking), and home=(fucking).
There’s a reason this system exists, because each base is considered sexier than the last. You might get so wet he can feel through you leggings, but there’s absolutely no comparison between that and touching your “actually like vagina.” I can’t promise he’ll say DAM, but I do know that rubbing my lover’s silky wet pussy and hearing her moan while I flick her tender little clit under her panties were some of the best times I ever had. So yes, go for it. I bet he’ll enjoy it.